Decisions - Right or Wrong ??

When people do something unexpected weather good or bad with me, I try to accept it…but when I am the reason to hurt someone else, I am not able to accept it. This happens with me, don’t know the same case is with others or not. So, why does it happen like that?? May b because we have heard a million times that the life is not so easy n the world outside is not so good….but we have always seen ourselves as a good soul….we have always been a good person(in our frame of a good person ;)) or tries to be the one.

Actually everything is relative, we have our own ideologies, our own rules of life, and when something goes against that we are not able to accept it. But what to do when you know that u are wrong there, what to do when u know that u yourself are responsible for the other person’s discomfort.

I have heard it somewhere that your “all decisions need not to b correct, if your 60-70% of decisions are correct then u r done with it”, then u can lead your life successfully/ happily. I would also like to quote warren buffet “You only have to do a very few things right in your life so long as you don't do too many things wrong.” Should this b applied in relationships too or this is rightly said within reference to business only??

we take decisions on daily basis and that too many decisions per day… then why do we believe that our every decision ought to b correct? Till we do not know the other perspective of that decision, the effect of that decision on the individual at the other end, we are comfortable with it, but what happens when we come to know its consequences on the person at the other end. If we can be happy with our 10 right decisions, the why do we not have the capability to bear consequences of that one wrong one??? Why do we brood over it again and again and imagine that what if you would not have done that. One way is to not to brood much over that, another to learn from our mistake. But here one more case arrives that what to do when u know that you were right in your context, with reference to your own life, with reference to your preferences n priorities towards life. Freedom of an individual is defined as “u are free to do anything in your life till your activities does not hinder others life in any of the way”. But when both individuals are true with their perspectives, the one is expecting and the one is not able to come up to the expectations, then what should be done.

Not getting any exact answer to this, do you have? I got only this as solution that try not to repeat again in future and decide things by considering individual at other end, but again the same thing arrives that u were right according to your priorities.. And it becomes a vicious circle

Well, I think that’s LIFE!! And it should be led happily :-)